Thread:Lord Of The Rings-Fan Girl/@comment-24149196-20140603152426/@comment-24238747-20141204161420

Theglem4 wrote: This is a question I wanted to ask for a while, but it's... I'm not sure I would say sensitive... quite personal, I suppose, so I held off. Heck with, though, I'm sure it'll be fine.

Who's a virgin? On top of that, what's your thoughts on premarital sex?

I'm a virgin.

I want to preface this next paragraph with a statement: I don't condone premarital sex.

I plan on staying that way until marriage, but I lack much self-control. I don't judge people for having premarital sex if it is with someone close. Even if they have a baby, I wouldn't judge under those circumstances if they keep it. When it isn't with someone close, I don't condemn or, for most people, even judge them. I understand it is normal these days. With most people, I don't give much more than a sigh when I hear about their premarital sex, but I do expect more from some people. Even for the majority of the people in the second group, I'm only disappointed. I haven't even been kissed before so I am too.

I am Christan, and I, we, believe that God doesn't want us to have sex until marriage. While I plan to stick to this, it might...happen. If someone I know is Christan DOES have sex before marriage, I might be disappointed a little but I wouldn't be angry. If they aborted then I might hate them. Then there's birth control, which I guess is smart. You can do it as much as you want before marriage with condoms or something and nobody has a problem... But still, I think God doesn't like it. I guess I'll just see what happens in my life. I just don't understand why people can't have self control of their needs or wishes.