Thread:Lord Of The Rings-Fan Girl/@comment-24149196-20140603152426/@comment-24223945-20141203205941

Theglem4 wrote: This is a question I wanted to ask for a while, but it's... I'm not sure I would say sensitive... quite personal, I suppose, so I held off. Heck with, though, I'm sure it'll be fine.

Who's a virgin? On top of that, what's your thoughts on premarital sex?

I'm a virgin.

I want to preface this next paragraph with a statement: I don't condone premarital sex.

I plan on staying that way until marriage, but I lack much self-control. I don't judge people for having premarital sex if it is with someone close. Even if they have a baby, I wouldn't judge under those circumstances if they keep it. When it isn't with someone close, I don't condemn or, for most people, even judge them. I understand it is normal these days. With most people, I don't give much more than a sigh when I hear about their premarital sex, but I do expect more from some people. Even for the majority of the people in the second group, I'm only disappointed. I am a virgin and I plan to hopefully stay that way until I know for sure that I have found a man that will love me and be faithful to me for the rest of my life.

I am pretty neutral on premarital sex. It depends on the circumstance. My mother got pregnant with my oldest brother before she married my father. They actually did not get married until after she gave birth. If two people have strong feelings for each other and truly love each other enough to possibly raise a child together then I would not be against that. As long as they are faithful enough to go to that level of commitment, it is fine. Though, there is many cases in which a girl will get pregnant and the man will leave her. That could ruin her entire life. What a lot of people these days do not understand is that intimate relationships are not a game. So, for me it depends on the situation. My primary concern is the female being left with a child that she was not ready for.